Why do good women end up with thugged-out bad boys?!! They can't help it. No matter how much they WANT to like a normal guy, women get more excited when a thugged-out bad boy with swagger walks into the room!! "That's some bull****, women don't know what they want!" That's what I've heard guys say and complain about at my local barbershop. But actually, guys, it's not bull****. It's supposed to be this way. Women have been designed to be attracted to thugs.
In the animal kingdom, the dominant male in a group of animals is referred to as being “the alpha male.” Usually, the female members of the group are attracted to the alpha male and they want to mate with him. This happens because the alpha male displays characteristics that are vital to the female's survival. This male is usually aggressive, physically strong and very decisive and matter-of-fact in his decision making. This proves to the female that he is capable of providing for her, protecting her, leading her and impregnating her with seed that will produce healthy and strong offspring.
Although we humans are mentally superior to other species, this "alpha male" phenomena exists within our culture as well. When a female sees a strong and capable male enter the room, she pays attention. Even if the thug is not her "type," she'll still pay attention. This is primal. She can't help it. Females have behaved this way for thousands of years. No matter how much intellect we manage to amass inside our civilized little heads, there is still a part of each human that operates based on the way we were fundamentally designed - many, many years ago. If a guy is tall, she notices. If he's muscular, she notices. Deep voice? She hears him. Does he appear to be the more important or ringleader amongst his group of peers? She sees and she takes note.
A woman can declare all day long that she has no interest in a thugged-out rapper, a bad-boy rock band member or even an average joe who may be tattooed all over and gets into trouble with the law every now and then... But if this guy is physically imposing, strong, confident and has an "I know I'm the baddest motherf**ka in this room" attitude - a human female will have no choice but to pay attention to this guy and size him up for the possibility of mating with him. It's primal. It's animalistic. It's human.
So, guys, the takeaway is this: Females are NOT attracted to thugs because they're thugs. They're attracted to thugs because a thug displays alpha male characteristics. And the Alpha Male is ultra-attractive. So, dude, if you're married... Spice it up a bit sometimes and step up your Alpha Male-ism. To be Alpha Male doesn't mean to be an a**hole, it just means to be strong, decisive, and confident. Take your wife out and make sure she feels like she's out with the baddest dude in your city that night (and also be sure to make her feel like she's the baddest chick in your city that night). This will be a very sexy night! And the rewards for your efforts will be well worth it! Now, dude, if you're single... Wow! Begin to display Alpha Male characteristics as quickly as possible. Practice it. Make it part of your personality! I guarantee you will see the results of this alpha male-ism soon and often!
[The ideas expressed in this posting are based on the book, The 7 Things All Women Must Have by The Womanologist. The book is available as a Kindle eBook on Amazon.com or a hard copy paperback on Blurb.com. The Womanologist is a writer who has worked as a Journalist since the early 1990's. After a divorce that left him dumbfounded & confused, he became determined to gain a better understanding of The Human Female and her TRUE needs. He prayed about the situation and then immediately took action - experimenting, observing and taking notes. The 7 Things All Women Must Have is the result of years of very meticulous experimentation, observation and sensitivity. The information is real and always works when properly implemented. THIS BOOK WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER!!!]
In the animal kingdom, the dominant male in a group of animals is referred to as being “the alpha male.” Usually, the female members of the group are attracted to the alpha male and they want to mate with him. This happens because the alpha male displays characteristics that are vital to the female's survival. This male is usually aggressive, physically strong and very decisive and matter-of-fact in his decision making. This proves to the female that he is capable of providing for her, protecting her, leading her and impregnating her with seed that will produce healthy and strong offspring.
Although we humans are mentally superior to other species, this "alpha male" phenomena exists within our culture as well. When a female sees a strong and capable male enter the room, she pays attention. Even if the thug is not her "type," she'll still pay attention. This is primal. She can't help it. Females have behaved this way for thousands of years. No matter how much intellect we manage to amass inside our civilized little heads, there is still a part of each human that operates based on the way we were fundamentally designed - many, many years ago. If a guy is tall, she notices. If he's muscular, she notices. Deep voice? She hears him. Does he appear to be the more important or ringleader amongst his group of peers? She sees and she takes note.
A woman can declare all day long that she has no interest in a thugged-out rapper, a bad-boy rock band member or even an average joe who may be tattooed all over and gets into trouble with the law every now and then... But if this guy is physically imposing, strong, confident and has an "I know I'm the baddest motherf**ka in this room" attitude - a human female will have no choice but to pay attention to this guy and size him up for the possibility of mating with him. It's primal. It's animalistic. It's human.
So, guys, the takeaway is this: Females are NOT attracted to thugs because they're thugs. They're attracted to thugs because a thug displays alpha male characteristics. And the Alpha Male is ultra-attractive. So, dude, if you're married... Spice it up a bit sometimes and step up your Alpha Male-ism. To be Alpha Male doesn't mean to be an a**hole, it just means to be strong, decisive, and confident. Take your wife out and make sure she feels like she's out with the baddest dude in your city that night (and also be sure to make her feel like she's the baddest chick in your city that night). This will be a very sexy night! And the rewards for your efforts will be well worth it! Now, dude, if you're single... Wow! Begin to display Alpha Male characteristics as quickly as possible. Practice it. Make it part of your personality! I guarantee you will see the results of this alpha male-ism soon and often!
[The ideas expressed in this posting are based on the book, The 7 Things All Women Must Have by The Womanologist. The book is available as a Kindle eBook on Amazon.com or a hard copy paperback on Blurb.com. The Womanologist is a writer who has worked as a Journalist since the early 1990's. After a divorce that left him dumbfounded & confused, he became determined to gain a better understanding of The Human Female and her TRUE needs. He prayed about the situation and then immediately took action - experimenting, observing and taking notes. The 7 Things All Women Must Have is the result of years of very meticulous experimentation, observation and sensitivity. The information is real and always works when properly implemented. THIS BOOK WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER!!!]